Friday, October 30, 2009

500#1 Why Teenagers are Stressed out

Teenagers go through a lot of trials and tribulations while they are growing up. They are stressed out because of several reasons during that time. Teenagers especially push themselves although they are doing well. Simple problems can even become more serious to them.
Above all, teenagers are sensitive about relationships with acquaintances such as their parents and friends. They received financial and educational supports and are protected by their parents, so they have to be allowed their activity by their protector. However, they regard as interferences, not concerns. Accordingly, they are stressed out when their parents tell them, “You should clean your room”, “You have to study hard” or “You can’t go shopping with your friends”. Furthermore, they feel jealousy when their best friend even gets through another friend. They are stressed out about these problems because they are emotional and sensitive as teens.
Another stress that pressures teenagers is about the unstable future. They have fears their ambiguous future. Teenagers are placed in heavy competition between their peers and most of them don’t know what they really want to do. Although the time that they have to be independent from their parents is approaching, they are not ready to go ahead because they have grown up in the protection of their parents. Their future is a challenge to them.
Teenagers are also interested in their appearance during their maturing process. They want to express their own personalities especially in co-ed school . For example, they redesign their school uniforms to express their style. Some girls tie ribbons on neck. Other girls make their skirts short. And some boys dress their hair with pomade. Some teenagers get stressed if they are not paid attention by their peers.
In conclusion, they are stressed out in many ways like relationships with people, unstable future, and appearance. However, they become mature and strong while they endure that time. Also, experiences gotten from stresses help teenagers mature. As a result, they can conquer all their difficulties when they come out into society.

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